The Book Of Love: Modern Kamasutra (Volume 1) Authored by MD. Shariful Hasan Shopnil Shishir

Whether you want to make your woman or your booty keep coming back for more, it is important to know what really makes a woman squirm, and moan, and cry with pleasure in bed. Sex is an art, and it takes time, patience, and the willingness to learn, to know what it is. Sex is a language, and it sounds resonate differently to different women, and understanding the sex language of a woman you’re having a relationship with is very important. Whether you’re looking for great sexual adventures from online booty call sites or along the streets you walk, there are some techniques, call them sex moves, which can be mind-blowing.
The Book Of Love: Modern Kamasutra (Volume 1) Paperback – Large Print, January 15, 2015 by MD. Shariful Hasan Shopnil Shishir (Author)

 

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1.Make a date of watching the sky. Whether you're watching a sunset, sunrise, or creating your own constellations as you stargaze together, getting outside and looking up at the sky is a great way for the two of you to bond and become more intimate. This kind of activity gives you lots of time for talking and bonding on a level that might even be more intimate than sex alone, which makes it a great alternative to sex. ·    For example, make a date of stargazing. Watch a couple of your favorite movies together to help you stay up, and then take some tasty snacks, a couple of warm drinks, and some music out to a place where you can get a great look at the night sky. Lay out on a blanket together and come up with your own constellations and stories to go with them as you enjoy whatever you brought with you.
  
2.Look at pictures together. Looking at pictures of your childhood and the people that were important to you is a very intimate act. When you discuss the things that mattered to you and the events and people that led you to become who you are, you reveal a lot of vulnerabilities to your partner. Showing your weaknesses in an inherently intimate act, that is emotionally significant for the exact same reasons that sex is, making this a great alternative or supplement to a more physical relationship.   
 

3.  Exercise together. Exercising together also puts you in a vulnerable position...except that exercising is sort of a special case, because it's sexy (sexier than you think!) and vulnerable at the same time. Exercise makes our bodies mimic the physical appearance of sex, making you look sexy to your partner when you work out even if you feel really gross (never mind the fact that studies have shown that the smell of fresh sweat is very attractive [3]). However, both you and your partner will realize that it might be an opportunity to see flaws in each other, and that vulnerability also makes exercising together a really intimate act.
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4.Do an art project together. When you ask most people about sexy art projects, most people will think of that scene from Ghost but the history of creating art as an intimate act goes back a lot further than Patrick Swayze's borderline-mullet. Creating a piece of art is like making a child and when you do it right, it reveals a lot about your soul and who you are as a person. ·    For example, you can work together to create two paintings: one that you can put above your bed and one that your partner can put above theirs. This way you feel like you have something of them that you can look at as you fall asleep.
 
 Another option would be to save up a year's worth of date receipts, movie stubs, photographs, and other paper ephemera and then decoupage them into an artistic journal cover. You can then trade the journal back and forth, writing about your personal thoughts about each date you go on, writing each other poetry, or even just writing each other letters in the journal.
   
5.Read a book together. Reading a book together is a great way to bond, feel physically close, and get intimate in a way that goes beyond sex. We're not just talking about reading a book at the same time here either (although you can totally do that!). Sit down together, wrapped up in each other's arms, and take turns reading a chapter or a page aloud. If you're not the best out-loud readers, you can also read the page silently and then signal when you're ready for a page turn. With the right book, i.e. one you both really like, this is a very intimate activity and it gives you a lot to talk about later. ·    This intimate activity can be preceded by another one: going to a bookstore together. Go shopping together to find a book that you both think sounds great.
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1.   1Ask personal questions. Bonding mentally is all about getting to know each other on a real level. It's about going beyond the obvious questions of favorite colors and number of siblings. By asking your partner some real, personal questions, you can start getting mentally intimate. Just be sure that you approach these conversations in a good way: don't be judgemental and do be respectful of what they tell you.
·    Ask questions like "If you could choose to be anyone, real or fictional, who would you choose to be and why?", "What would you say to your younger self, if you could? What would you say to your older self?", and "If you could make three wishes for someone else, who would you make the wishes for and what would you wish for them?".
  
2.Talk about your bucket lists. Talk to each other about what you want to do before you die. What, right now, are the goals and future events that you want to see happen? Don't just talk about what you want to happen or what you want to do; you should also discuss why you want those things to happen. The why is almost more important than the wish itself and it can tell you a lot about each other.
·    For example, maybe you want to travel to the Japanese countryside because your grandparents met there and their love story has been an important inspiration for you.
 

 3.Talk about what you're proud of...and what you're not proud of. It's easy and fun to talk about what you're the most proud of and what we take pride in does say a lot about us. However, a much more intimate act is to talk about the things that you don't like about yourself. Talk about the things that you want to change or improve and why those things matter so much to you.
·    For example, you might talk about how you hate that you apologize for everything and you want to be better about asserting yourself, especially in family situations.
·    This kind of conversation has to be done in the right way, however. You don't want your partner feeling like they showed up for the pity parade. It's also important for your own mental health that you don't focus on the negative side of seeking self-improvement.
 
4.Ask for advice. Asking your partner for advice can be very intimate. We're not talking about seeing what they think about your shoes, though. You should ask them for serious advice for serious problems that you're facing in your life. Admitting that you need help with the tough stuff to someone you're very close to is not only a good, healthy habit in relationships, it is also very intimate because it's such a difficult thing to do. ·    For example, you might be struggling with your mom, who thinks your choice to go to vocational school rather than a liberal arts university is pretty much the worst thing you could do to her. Ask for some advice on what you should do and how you can help her understand your decision.
 

5.Talk about your relationship. You can also talk about who you are as a couple. Talk about what you have in common, what your differences are, what your hopes are for your future as a couple, where you want things to go between you, etc. These are all sometimes uncomfortable conversations that might make you feel shy or embarrassed but there's a good reason to talk about things like this. Not only will you have a better picture of what you can expect from your partner, but you'll also feel closer to them because of that added feeling of security

Editorial Reviews

 

From the Author

If there's any book that you would think would make anyone blush it's the Kama Sutra. But in truth, only a little bit is actually about what we think it is--sexual positions. The book is actually about human sexuality, which is quite different than the act itself. Included in the Kama Sutra are huge sections on how a woman should behave when her husband is away, how the furniture in the house should be arranged, how husbands and wives should interact with their in-laws, and how a man can attract a woman if he's not so handsome.


The book is designed to tell young people everything they need to know about the opposite gender, providing a window into the minds of men and women, hints on how to find the perfect match, and what to do with them--and their family--once you've gotten them. And it's all written from the point of view of someone who's trying to help you attain the three virtues (Kama, Artha, and Dharma), so it's not written with the goal of being the smutty work we think of today.
The book takes its name from the virtue that it's mostly concerned with: love. Kama is the enjoyment of earthly pleasures and is complete only when all five senses can enjoy something. And it's the least of the three virtues, too.
So what would you learn if you read the Kama Sutra?
One of the first things you'd learn is how to live a virtuous life as a regular citizen. That means not just what kind of hobbies you should have (honoring the deities, attending parties, having picnics, and drinking) but also how one's house should be laid out. (That includes the layout and presentation of the bed, boxes for various purposes, garlands of flowers, and bird cages.) The Kama Sutra tells you when you should shave, when you should eat, and what times of the day are best for training your singing birds and your fighting birds. There's picnic etiquette (always go on horseback), specifics on the proper alcohols to drink, and reminders on public bathing and swimming (the most important of which is to make sure that all dangerous animals have been taken out of the water first).